BODY VARIATIONS AND OUR SEXUALITY. BLINDNESS

Humans use sight more than any other sense. People who are blind cannot see with their eyes. Instead, they develop their other senses: touch, hearing, smell, and sound. These other senses help them “see.” Blind people can read a language by moving their fingers over a code of bumps—this language is called braille. They write, move around in society, play sports, hold jobs, create art, or make music. They have sexual relationships. They are parents and grandparents.

People who are blind from birth are likely to begin puberty at an earlier age than sighted people. Women and men who have early menarche and spermarche are also likely to begin having sexual intercourse at an early age. Blind women may also experience more irregular menstrual cycles than sighted women.

Books about sexuality that are designed for sighted people may not be as useful for blind people. Instead, discussions, models that can be touched, and books in braille can help provide sexuality education for the blind. Being an open and approachable parent will help provide sexuality education for a blind child. Growing up and discovering sexuality as a blind person means discovering what is arousing without sight. It may be a voice, a personality, a certain odor, or a certain touch. Blind people develop sexual preferences just like everyone else.

People who become blind as adults may have already gained a sexuality education. However, adjusting to their loss of sight may be challenged by depression, lower self-esteem, and confusion about their sexuality. It is important for friends and family members who become blind to recognize that they are still sexually attractive and capable of enjoying and having sex. In fact, they may even be able to heighten their sexual sensations. Nevertheless, the transition period can be hard for adults and their sex partners. Patience, effort, and education can help both partners through this time.

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